Today was the hardest day of our lives. It went from bad to worse at Mike's scope appt. They had me come in to try to wake him and just seeing him unconscious was too much for me and I broke down. They called a counselor up to comfort me. I cried uncontrollably the entire time he was asleep. All the RN's were compassionate and I will forever be grateful for the care they showed me. I somehow knew they had very bad news for us; and I couldn't do anything but cry. There were three nurses who went on about what a great guy Mike was and how he had them all laughing before he went in and they all helped me cry.
When Mike woke up the doctor came in to show us pictures; they found a very large mass growing from his stomach all the way up into his esophagus. The doctor called it a tree, in the photos it looked like a head of cauliflower it was white and at the base of the mass it's ulcerated meaning it's bleeding. The doctor said he was surprised Mike could swallow and eat. It's inoperable.
They called oncology and moved his next appt. from the 9th to April 2nd. At that appt. they will most likely tell us it's stomach/esophageal cancer metastasis to the liver. They basically told us that at this scope appt. but said officially the oncologist will tell us.They said eventually he may have to have a feeding tube in his stomach. The doctor told him due to the large tumors on his liver he's likely to die of liver failure. My heart is sick with grief and the small hope I had is gone. My biggest fear became real and I am so very afraid I am losing my best friend, my Mitt. Why, my Mitt, why?
Dear Chris and Mitt-
ReplyDeleteI am at a total loss for words. I am so devistated by this news that I can't even think...I can only cry. I don't know what to say but I wanted to post something to let you guys know that you I love you both and I am praying for you. I am here for you if there is anything you need or anything I can do. Xoxoxoxoxoxo...Darc
We cannot adequately express how much we love you guys. We send our prayers for You of comfort and peace. May God wrap his arms and comfort you during this time. Please know that you guys are NOT alone in this journey. You have so many friends and family that will be with you at every step of the way! Our hearts are broken. As much as Zariah tried to cheer up Miranda it was difficult. I hope you guys feel our live and prayers.
ReplyDeleteI Love You Sister, See you two this weekend.
ReplyDeleteChris,
ReplyDeleteEven though we have only met on a couple of occasions, I feel I have to tell you what you certainly already know. I have played over 500 rounds of golf with Mike and when you spend that much time on the golf course with someone, there really is nowhere to hide in terms of exposing your true character. Mike’s love for wife and family is something that we have both had in common over the years and I can tell you true to form that Mike’s number priority through all this is you. We talked on the phone yesterday prior to the results and was amazed at both how positive he was as well as how focused he was at making sure he made the right decisions to be sure you were taken care of in the long-term. Mike leaves a positive impression on everyone he meets and I want you to know that there are a lot of folks that are praying for you guys and struggling for ways to try to help. Mike Reid
I don't really have anything to say besides I've been crying all week, yesterday I was worthless while at work, all I could do was think about you guys. I took the long way into work, around the beautiful lake, soaking in the majestic sunrise while praying and thinking of you guys. I do appreciate these updates, I probably check
ReplyDeleteMike's blog more than he does! Love you guys
Dear Chris & Family, Mike and I work together. I wanted to reach out to you, Mike, and the family to let you know that there's not a day that you guys are not on my mind or in my prayers. This is just so heart wrenching and difficult to understand why this would happen to Mike and your family. From reading your blog and hearing about Mike's strength and his continuing to be positive throughout, you two are incredibly amazing. My love, thoughts, and prayers always. God bless you all!
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Chris and Mike,
ReplyDeleteWhat can I possibly say, there are no words that can describe how devastated we all are by the news you received yesterday. Tears and prayers are flowing from South Dakota. We love you and are so grateful that God blessed us with the opportunity to be a part of your life. You are truly an inspiration to everyone you meet Mike. Love, Michelle Schoenfelder
Chris and Mike, I am totally at a lose for words. Just know that we are here for you, your in our thoughts and prayers. Please don't hesitate to call and reach out for help and support. Love Kathy S
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